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Why You're Not Confident

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Some people seem to stride through life with confidence. For most people, however, confidence seems hard to find, but they get along well enough without it. Yet, confidence is still a big deal in self-help literature. Why? Self-confidence is related to performance: confident people do better in school and at work, and those achievements make them even more confident. It’s a perfect positive feedback loop. Confidence also predicts subjective happiness, which shouldn’t be surprising: it’s easier to be happy if you feel sure about your place in the world. So how can you get in on all that good stuff and be more confident? There are some surprisingly simple ways to grow your confidence if you know what you’re doing. What is Confidence Exactly? Confidence - or self-confidence if you want to be pedantic and psychological about it - is the belief in your own ability to succeed. There are two other concepts that are similar to confidence: self-esteem and self-efficacy. It’s important to achiev...

Holika Dahan: The Festival of Love, Unity, and Forgiveness

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Holika Dahan is a popular Hindu festival that is celebrated in many parts of India, Nepal, and other countries with significant Hindu populations. It is a festival that is steeped in tradition and has a deep significance for many people who celebrate it. Holika Dahan marks the victory of good over evil, and it is celebrated on the night before the festival of Holi. During this festival, people light bonfires and perform puja (prayer) rituals to worship Lord Vishnu and seek his blessings. The bonfire symbolizes the victory of good over evil, as it represents the destruction of the demon Holika, who tried to kill Lord Vishnu's devotee, Prahlad. The festival has many different cultural and religious meanings, but it is primarily a celebration of love, unity, and the triumph of good over evil. People come together during Holika Dahan to pray, sing, dance, and spend time with their loved ones. It is a time of joy and festivity, and it brings people together in a spirit of camaraderie an...

Life is a Roller Coaster - Embrace the Ride

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Life is a precious gift that we are all given, and it is up to us to make the most of it. There are many different opinions about what makes a good life, but in my opinion, there are a few key things that are essential to living a happy and fulfilling life. First and foremost, I believe that having a positive attitude is crucial to living a good life. No matter what challenges come our way, it is important to stay optimistic and to focus on the good things in life. This doesn't mean that we should ignore our problems or pretend that everything is perfect, but rather that we should approach life with a can-do attitude and a willingness to learn and grow. Another important aspect of a good life is having meaningful relationships with others. Whether it's with family, friends, or romantic partners, having people in our lives who care about us and support us can make all the difference. Building strong connections with others takes time and effort, but the rewards are well worth it...